Joy in the journey
From: Steven Ng <pkiam@singnet.com.sg>
Date : Wed, 09 Jun 1999 10:37:07 0800
If you have ever been
discouraged because of failure, please read on. For often, achieving what you
set out to do is NOT the important thing. Let me explain.
Two brothers decided to dig a deep hole behind their house. As they were
working, a couple of older boys stopped by to watch. "What are you
doing?" asked one of the visitors. "We plan to dig a hole all the way
through the earth!" one of the brothers volunteered excitedly. The older
boys began to laugh, telling the younger ones that digging a hole all the way
through the earth was impossible.
After a long silence, one of the brothers picked up a jar full of spiders, worms
and a wide assortment of insects. He removed the lid and showed the wonderful
contents to the scoffing visitors. Then he said quietly and confidently,
"Even if we don't dig all the way through the earth, look what we found
along the way!"
Their goal was far too ambitious, but it did cause them to dig. And that is what
a goal is for -- to cause us to move in the direction we have chosen; in other
words, to get us to digging! But not every goal will be fully achieved. Not
every job will end successfully. Not every relationship will endure. Not every
hope will come to pass. Not every love will last. Not every endeavor will be
completed. Not every dream will be realized.
And when that happens, when you fall short of your aim, can you say, "Yeah,
but look at what I found along the way! Look at the wonderful things which have
come into my life because I tried to do something!"?
For it's in the digging that life is lived. And it is joy along the journey, and
not the end, that truly matters. For the end or goal is just a spit seconds
while the journey through your goal could be a life-time if
not years.